So you may be wondering, “Why have a secret pal in the first place?” Good question! The reason you may seek a secret pal is because there is a void or need in your life for a friend. Good enough reason? Maybe; if you are seeking a man for a secret pal, keep reading, if not, keep reading.
Men are from Mars
We have all heard of the book “Men are from mars woman are from Venus” right? Psychologists, theorists, scholars, feminists, religious circles, your friends, and men themselves have all attempted to categorize the types of men that exist. Are they all right? Maybe; the most important thing to remember is that men and women are very different indeed and because of this, conflict will always arise. My stance is that women are the superior beings. This is not a secret at all ladies. I whole heartedly believe that men are just not that bright! Is that a harsh statement? Not really.
Men give loyalty a great boy scout try, but many become distracted and fail at commitment time and time again. Women on the other hand stays focused more or less, and when they do fail, are cunning and sneaky so that their tracks are covered and they move on quickly not usually looking back. Woman have the ability to maturely “pull their panties up”, and briskly “keep it moving” Does this make women “better” then men? Not really, but it does prove them to be smarter. Men get confused and stumped leaving sloppy trails of their affair(s) while continuously looking back or eventually leaving their spouse for someone they feel is “better” in one way or another. This often backfires by way of carma – stupid!
The love of your Life
Are you waiting to meet the love of your life? Do you believe in the Cinderella story? Have you tried online dating? If you answered yes to one or all of these questions, there is good news and bad news for you. If you have already found the love of your life, good for you, if not, I’m not surprised. Okay, finding the love of your life is not a dream you should wait on for the rest of your life. If you wait for the perfect man with a silly little checklist, you will be a life-long lonely person for sure! The secret to getting the love of your life is to change the way you think about “love” . There are laws in getting what you need in life. Before you frustrate yourself, try researching the right kind of information to find your life partner.
What is Love?
Love can be defined in many ways. Love is patient, kind, not easily angered, does not rejoice in good, etc.. Feel free to use the google search bar below to find resources to the definition of love. Love is not an overwhelming “feeling” that comes over you. Love is a choice. You choose to love someone. Or, you choose not to love them. All you’re waiting for the perfect man jazz is a bunch of crap! Bad news, he does not exist! You will have to pick someone closest to your checklist and move on with your life. If you feel you will find someone better “after” you choose a mate, why haven’t you met them already? People are imperfect, and so are you. If you want love, you need to simply make a choice to love someone who is decent, and most likely to love you unconditionally, share your same religious beliefs, and treat you with the utmost respect! A partner who has money also helps you if you are not financially secure.
In conclusion, don’t waste your time with online dating, or any dating for that matter if you are looking for “prince charming”. It is my hope for you that maturity will assist you in the realization that men and women are different, and that since women are the superior beings anyway, you may have to just pick a guy. There are women who so “seem” like they found the perfect guy and we are jealous or deny other men to find a guy just like who we think is “Mr. Perfect” However, a perfect man is like nice window dressings. On the outside the window curtains are embezzled with the richest clothe and diamonds, but behind them is a dirty house in theory of course. So never envy or covet anything that you feel is “perfect. So you see, you may be wasting your time with a secret pal unless you change your thinking about love first. Open your mind and create your happy future by understanding the laws of attraction. Once you change your thinking, you will be ready to diminish childlike fantasies and unrealistic expectations and should be on the right track to positive decision making in order to secure a meaningful long-lasting relationship.
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Laws of Attraction
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Mother always instructed her children to use wisdom in making decisions. Therefore, I employ you to keep in mind the psychology behind asking questions. If you have free time, psychology books are a great place to start.
Tip: Remember not to ask open ended questions if you are seeking concrete answers.
Your secret pal will eventually become familiar to you. Wisdom is the principal thing, in many situations so seek it! There are many ways to actualize what your needs and or desires. I recommend a great resource that can help. Click here to receive the information you need that will bring you closer to your all of your dreams. Knowledge in general will hopefully increase the likelihood of you meeting your future life partner!
Secret Pal Basic Questionnaire
1. Are you currently in a relationship? If not, why did your last relationship end?
2. Are you currently married? If not, have you ever been married?
3. Are you currently enrolled in school? If yes, which school & what is your major?
4. Are you employed?
5. How old are you?
6. How many long-term relationships have you had?
7. How long have you been single (if single)?
8. What is your first and last name?
9. What is your favorite color?
10. What are you looking for (friends, dating, or marriage)?
11. What is your favorite movie?
12. What is your favorite song, and who is the musical artist?
13. What social website(s) are you on?
14. What are your hobbies?
15. Who do you live with?
16. Do you have a college degree? If yes, what school(s) have you attended?
17. Do you have children? If yes, do you want more children in the future?
18. Do you want children in the future (if no children)?
19. Do you drink?
20. Do you smoke?
21. Do you have a valid driver’s license?
22. Do you own a car?
"This will be…..... an everlasting love"
"You have to be in it to win it"
Many friends say “yes” eharmony.com really works. One friend in particular is soon to be married to her eharmony.com beau. On the other hand, other friends say that although eharmony.com has a sound concept, they personally have yet to meet their “love everlasting.”
Some reject online dating because they feel it is unsafe or saturated with mentally unstable individuals. On the contrary, how well do we know the gal or guy we meet at the mall or grocer? We do not know a person we meet only once either, but we may well accept an offer to go on a date with them in the future.
One can certainly argue that when you initially meet someone face-to-face, you have the opportunity to make a more in depth initial assessment. Face-to-face is beneficial because you may have an idea if you and your love interest are generally compatible, which may end up saving you both “first date disaster time” if you will.
We all have a six sense or guide that helps us make decisions. We all know that what works for one, will not work for all. We all have access to raw and composite statistical data. We all have a higher source we can refer to in times of confusion.
So what is the moral of this story? Does eharmany.com really work? Well, if you humbly refer to your inner voice, precise statistics, and higher source, you will be equipped to discover if eharmony.com is right for you.
In addition, one fact will always be for sure on many playing fields, “you have to be in it to win it.”
Secret Pal Questionnaire
The purpose of this “secret pal questionnaire blog” is to provide you with a list of questions for your secret pal. The accurate response to these questions will assist you in knowing more about your secret pal.
There are many questions one can ask another person and many reasons to ask them. In all communication, think about the general psychology of asking a question. When asking one a question, you want to be clear and concise. You want to present as a caring, interested, and non-judgmental.
It is important to remember that many married couples do not fully know 100% accurate information about their mate so don’t expect these questions to uncover 100% accurate understanding of another person. Everyone has free will. Therefore, it is up to your pal as to how much information they care to share. A list of questions has been provided based on your overall objective. This blog will be consistently updated with new information for your convenience.
In all things, please try your best to obtain the accurate first and last name of your pal. With this information, it is my opinion only that you should consult with your local authorities (added precaution), google.com search engine and your higher source before making face-to-face contact with your pal.